Natasha, I am sorry to tell you this, but there is no factual evidence to back you up on your belief. Anyone who challenges your choices about whether or not to have sex is not giving you the respect that you deserve. While one group of women got a nasal spritz of the bonding hormone oxytocin before sex and the other group got only a spritz of a placebo, both groups enjoyed similar improvements in sex, according to the diaries they kept. Security, predictability, and stability are part of the beauty of marriage—hello, sweatpants and Netflix! Any man that shares the same values abstaining from sex before marriage is the right person to be with.
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Making the decision: deciding whether or not to have sex
Any guy who pressures you to have sex with him is completely lacking in respect, and in that case, either call the police no joke or ask a trusted friend or relative to help you — or better yet, do both. You may start to feel embarrassed, humiliated, and inadequate in the sack, which only makes them want to avoid it more. Is there someone else? We invite you to recognize the real-life obstacles to your healthiest, most fulfilling sex life, so you can find ways to overcome them. Sex was designed for procreation this is correct but it is also a passionate thing that God allowed to be pleasurable, and yes we are suppose to ENJOY it with our LIFE partner just not every person we meet at a club or on the street. How am I going to feel about my partner afterward?