Or when we or others are asking things of anyone's body which that particular body may or may not do. Though at the same time, when has anyone ever had someone with a penis tell them, "Hey, just so you know, I can ejaculate and might do it if we have sex together? If you don't like how it feels, you can try not bearing down with sexual pleasure or orgasm, or "holding it," physically the same way you hold urine when you have to pee but can't. This is one of those areas where the research is still ongoing, and where we can't draw too many conclusions just yet: I was SO embarrassed. I have had one orgasm from the g-spot that felt "Oh my God! Zina says, When I squirt it doesn't always feel like I think it should.
It has its own sensation, to be sure, but it's separate from orgasm, and there's no one right way for ejaculating to feel.
When I think about having that type of orgasm I think that it should feel amazing at the time that I squirt No partner should be spitting at you for ANY reason. If we're going to have multiple partners in life, then we've got to be down with the understanding that sexuality differs among people a lot, and what one partner enjoyed or we enjoyed with them may or may not be something that will go on with another. This is one of those areas where the research is still ongoing, and where we can't draw too many conclusions just yet: If you want more information on this kind of ejaculation, I'd suggest looking up Deborah Sundahl's work, including her book, Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot. Just because something about his ex's sexuality was super-cool to him doesn't mean parts of yours aren't as well or can't be unless they resemble hers.